Love & relationships

             

If your partner often keeps complaining about you,or he/she keeps telling you that you must change,without caring about your feelings & emotions.Then remember,this is never going to get changed.Because once you start changing yourself just because others are telling you to do so,then it means you have lended your key of happiness to someone else.It simple terms when you start doing so,there is literally no meaningful limits to that what he/she is asking for.
Remember,when you rely on someone to be happy,it means you are also lending him/her the absolute right to make you unhappy.
But sometimes it so often happens,that we stuck on to the same partners being nostalgic,its just the past good memories that gives us hope that one or the other day situation will change.
But in the real sense that relationship is losing its true essence when it is stuck on some past memories to come alive in the present or future.
    Just imagine a case when someone calls you 'beautiful' how nice you feel for a moment,and then if someone says 'you are ugly', you may start believing it for whole of your lifetime,which is even more dangerous enough to ruin your life.And It's all because our brain tricks down & amplifies negative thoughts more rather than positive ones.
   So anyone of you is facing such problem then just pause for a moment & reflect.
You will come to the conclusion,that if someone is not happy out of your being then it's nothing wrong with you,but they are reflecting their priorities.
  It's a Time to leave then,because  no one deserves to be rejected or to be unhappy or left alone.
Be grateful if someone has left you alone now, rather than later.
Be grateful that the same person has gone from your life.
 Don't go to water the dead plant.
  
It's not about being happy with someone,but its all about someone who makes you happy.