Certain predicaments of life are very difficult to explain.(True story)

               

While I was swiping my screen on & over the Quora.com, so as in the quest of finding  some interesting questions to answer,I came across one such which I feel was very genuine and happened to be difficult for me to answer.For a small fraction of time it left me speechless and I was in a transfixed state of mind.Now what do I answer him/her? To the point of my surprise it was asked in an anonymous state.Later on,when he was satisfied with my explanations and thoughts to recover from the irreparable loss he had suffered,he commented in the comment box " Thank you abhijit,you bought me peace." Then I just checked his profile and we became nice friends.

He is from u.s.A and was happy in his life with his well to do income and small family to maintain .He is working as diesel mechanic in reputed automobile company.But I am sorry I cannot tell you his name,because now its our personal matter and it's my commitment to share this bondage of painful relation that I am tied up with.

But I would definitely like to show you the glimpse of my answer to his question and its not only for him,perhaps indeed it is for all of you,because though we are smart enough to predict our future we still don't know what games our time is about to play with us.

My heart felt sympathies to you dear !
I hardly find anyone asking such questions,and the pain of losing someone in the family cannot be lowered down by anyone's sweet talks.
But they say “ Sharing happiness enhances it & sharing sorrow declines it.If there was any way to forget our beloved one's so easily, who have gone far beyond our sighs and left us with the big load of memories,then human life would have been a beautiful spell to live.But it isn't like that.
see,one or the other day everyone of us have to leave this world forever,and have to go. And this is the reality of our life that shatters us and keeps telling us that nothing is prominent over this earth,not even the world that we stay on.
If you love your mom so much,then you have got to do many things for her,and yourself.Breaking yourself in such a situation is not the right thing to do,and maybe this isn't what your mother must have taught to you when she was behind you to teach all such lessons.
Just imagine those days,when you fell on the playgrounds and how so your mother had treated you,just imagine that moment of your life when you had fallen sick on the bed and how your mother sat her eye on you for a full whole night.And just imagine those days when you had made her cry for your selfish deeds,just imagine those happy tears you gave her,when you must have achieved something in your life.
Just try to notice how you feel when you recall back that memorable time you have spent with your mother, at certain point of time you might smile and cry thinking about her.And its all because you miss that person so much,that none can replace her space in your house.
But there is one thing, I would like to tell you is that,the person who remains in your memory and heart forever is never gone.You will feel her sitting right besides you.And that's where her space is,where she is going to reside forever: ‘In your heart.’
See, when she had strived hard to give you life and struggled hard to make you a good person while inculcating morals,values and good character in you,then now on,it's your responsibility to walk on her paths which she had shown you.
There may be many incidences where she would have showed you many good principle of life that are to be maintained,even while you had been facing bitter lesson that your life brought forth.IT’S NOW TIME FOR YOU TO WALK ON HER PRINCIPLES,WHEN SHE IS NOT THERE RIGHT INFRONT OF YOU.
Whatever all that she did for you, was meant for this day, when she is not available for you,and gone forever.Now it's your time to prove her right that she had played her role well.And now that you have become a strong person than ever.Make an effort that proves her right in all walks of your life.
If we allow, ‘TIME HEALS EVERY WOUND'.Get yourself recovered well from this emotional & heart breaking situation of your life.Because as of now, you know well that, you still have got to do a lot many things to your late mother.
FIX YOUR LATE MOTHER OVER THE WALLS OF YOUR HEART,AND JUST DON’T TUCK HER ON THE WALLS OF YOUR HOUSE IN SOME FANCY FRAMES.WHERE SHE IS FORGOTTEN.
When she has made you,now its your turn to prove her right, when she is no more.
WALK ON ! LIFE IS SIMPLE IF YOU MAKE IT.
ALL OF US ARE ALIKE ‘TRAVELLERS, ON OUR OWN JOURNEY.’AND ALL OF US KNOW VERY WELL, THE FINAL DESTINATION OF OUR LIFE.WHERE FROM, WE ARE NEVER GOING TO TURN BACK.
so now on you have to take care of those who love you and who you love the most.
LIFE IS STILL A BEAUTIFUL JOURNEY.
WALK ON !