In the graves,is where we have to have plead guilty

In the graves is that we have to plead guilty (poem)

Like a ocean I was in a flowing motion,
 Blowing like a grazing wind under the shadows of my own sins.
  But now these empty spaces in my heart screams out aloud & echoes,
   'That I am a sinner',
   'and the sin is my only nature'.
  'I fell guilty in my own eyes',
   'I have fallen apart from your kind mercy(o God).'
 'The only reality of my life,are those rules of nature that will never change,
  And this destiny will never cease to erase the existence of my life upon the earth.'
 Of the dust & soil we are made of,
  And there in we will get assimilated.
 What I earned & yielded shall slip like a crispy sand out of the tight clenches of my hands.
  Empty hands we came,
  Empty handed we shall go.
  I wish if the graves had that much space to carry the burden of my sins,
  And in the graves is where we have to have plead guilty.
  

 

Unseen Talent of Abhijit Patil ( Author many lives many cries)

Apart from being an Author of many lives many cries,Abhijit Patil has mastered this skill of POI-DANCING,This form of art is actually an tribal art of maowri tribes of Newzealand,with the growth of time & technology it became modernised and now being performed & learnt everywhere.The poi Artist use & design their own prop With LED lights,fire or sandbags of equal weights from both the sides.

While you master this art you come to know the equilibrium that is maintained by your muscle memory,mind,soul & body.

This art also develops your focus and keeps you away from all the daily stress & also gives you sound exercise to your body as well as mind.

The poi artist exhibit their talent & skill  by  dancing with the same prop,as per their own preference.

YOU MUST TRY,BECAUSE ITS SOMETHING NEW.

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If you have fallen in love too fast,then it's not LOVE?

Today's message is little bit harsh & tough to be delivered for me,but it's important for me to share it with you all at any cost.

Everyone of us don't miss out this  particular stage of our life even though we are not willing to face it at all.some are lucky because they have got what they really wanted to have in their life and some are still in quest of the right companion.And of course that True love for which the whole world today is seeking for and are really confused about its existence.

Unlike everyone else,I was the person who use to always fall in love too fast.
 Actually, whenever I use to meet a girl in the disco parties,restaurant,college or any such spots of hanging out around,one thought is to always pass in my mind, 'yes,maybe she is the one'.

It took a while,and then I finally found her.There use to be alien notes of violins being played over the chords of my heart every time whenever I saw her in the city streets & towns.Everything just flowed,right from the conversation,our chemistry and the 24/7 hrs of connection with her, attached to  my heart & soul.It was all there,we use to meet every single day without fail and even if at all,we couldn't manage to see each other,then I use to be satisfied seeing her waiving at me even from the far distant place.And then I started believing that I have finally found someone who understood me well & much better rather than everyone else.

 After a span of almost a three weeks of time,this relationship had become more trustworthy & my dream.She found out all the goofy things I did,and told me that it was so cute of me and always made me believe how especial I was in her life.I still remember she had said that she had never been this way with anyone else before.we had started planing our life together.There was no room for any doubts,suspicion or any insecurities.All because she had taken away all these things far away from our beautiful dream world.
  
But after five weeks,she bought them all back,when I saw her with one more guy watching television & movie ' romeo Juliet' in her own bedroom,they were sitting on the sofa so close to each other in the same manner as we did.But they didn't expect me to be over there at that particular point of time,it was quite obvious because i had arrived there planing to give her a surprise visit at her home.I had bought bouquet for her,but when i opened her door,we were just looking at each others surprised and transfixed faces changing their natural colours.
I broke and was about to burst in tears,I just threw that bouquet over there at her place and started walking out.she did tried to follow me from behind,but she had left no way for me to come back.
Things were quite clear for us and it is that it was my time to leave forever from her life.
  But one thing i didn't really understood is that they forgot to lock the doors and i don't know wether i was fortunate one chosen especial to watch this episode or not?or just it was a matter of coincidence.
  
I know unlike me this might have happened in your life too and you all must have cried alone weeping out over your bed in the nights,by locking yourselves in one room.

But i took it as one tough lesson that my life taught me and it's my pleasure today that i am to share this tough message before you all,because it's the serious matter of our life and everyones betterment.

This maybe my toughest message to give but i have to share it,anyhow.
    ' Don't  fall in love too fast and early.'
  Because the truth is when you fall in love this fast than it's not true love.
     Well,let me explain it to you in a very clear terms.Nothing good in our lives that we achieve never ever comes from falling.They say love has been described as blind and when the only time you fall in love,you don't know and really don't understand that you are totally blinded enough to ruin yourself.
It is so because when we are blinded we are most likely to fall.

When you are in such early & fast relationship,you start misunderstanding the things which are real and you start feeding  all in your mind the things that are not really true.
Like as in, you think of that person who you are tied up with,that you know his/her heart but the bitter truth is you just know his/her mind.
You think that you know his/her dreams but you just know his/her plans. You think that you know everything about his/her past,but you just know the parts and not even the half a portion of his/her life.
 
 I understand and know well,how it feels amazing to fall for someone so quickly,its just alike that adrenaline rush.
Just think,why would you want to fall for someone that you don't know at all?or is going to be there to hold you for his/her entire lifetime?
 Let me just suggest one thing for you all,Let the right person show you they are the right ones.
Don't just give away your trust to someone else so easily,because when it comes to trust,it must be earned,let him/her earn it.

This is something what I want you all to learn and bear it in your mind, what is the exact difference between,
 'I like you'and ' I love you'.?
Well, its like a flower that blooms in your garden. If you like a flower you will definitely go to pluck it and try to satisfy your selfish feeling of desire and pleasure,without even knowing or thinking any further that for one day the same flower will die,and the joy you are seeking or experiencing is not going to last forever.

But when you love that flower,you will water it daily, you will nurture it and allow it to grow and you will watch it grow every moment and everyday.This is called true love,and this is the exact demarcated line between liking someone and loving someone.

Always remember that we don't just find a huge tree with the beautiful fruits and flowers overnight,' It takes time '.
No matter how much you water it,no matter how much sunlight you give it,
   'But it takes time'.
No tree has a beautiful flower & fruits overnight.'Dont forget that you can't expect the tree to bear its flower and fruits overnight the moment when you plant that seed.And remember you can't eat that fruit the same day you plant that seed.
 " And so, neither can a relationship," 'IT DOES TAKES TIME.'

As far as I am concerned,the only thing which made me going and move forward is the feeling called 'love'.And its really wonderful feeling to survive with,even though you have been ghosted,cheated or torn apart by someone.
  So thus,I want my lovely people across this planet to have incredible, real,meaningful,genuine and purposeful relationships in their life.
Finally, on the flip side let me tell you all, "Dont make someone fall in love with you, if you don't know how to love them, him/her."
 Because it is for your own benefit,and still if you do so, then remember they won't end up questioning 'you', Instead, but they would end up questioning 'love.'

Being in love isn't any mood,it is a commitment that you follow even afterwards when your mood changes.
And this cannot be figured out in a time of couple of weeks or a month about.

"LOVE IS NOT ANY GAME,BUT IT IS ONE IMPORTANT FACET OF OUR LIFE."

What is the first thing that you must do in the morning to have a great day ahead?

First things first.
The foremost of all ,what you have to do before you get up from your bed,IS DON’T TOUCH YOUR MOBILE PHONE AND THEN GO TO START YOUR DAY. DO NOT EVER DO THAT. As everyone of us are aware that todays modern world is fully mechanised with technology,gadgets etc, on which we are totally reliant on. It seems to me with the growing artificial intelligence,we indeed have turned ourselves into some machine,and we have forgotten our real selves.
It's similar alike that we just start our day with one device of our accommodation and then we end our day on the other,further we are at home.Has anyone ever thought how much may be the extent of that? No ! Because we do not have enough time to think about ourselves,and this assumption travels from one school goer to office goer or it may be any of our household routines.
So now coming to your point,Morning time is the only one, we must try to dedicate it to ourselves.whenever you are about to get up from your bed,pray & be grateful to your god,and that he has given us such a wonderful world to survive.If you are domiciled at urban areas than you shouldn't miss the early morning and it's musings,as it is the only spell of an hour which is free from pollution,and fresh air is available at your window.Try to have some brisk walk in such a kind of atmosphere or try going out for at least half an hour,the same discipline if you obey regularly without fail,I assure you that you will stay rejuvenated for the remaining day of your routine. In simple terms,I am recommending you to do such activities which you love & enjoy doing them in the early morning hours. It may vary from easy normal physical activities like yoga exercises,playing some outdoor games, to simple writing or reading something of your interests.
The best benefit of spending your early morning hours likewise,actually inturn helps you out to be stress free and energetic, even though you are drowning with daily official or personal stress.Have you all ever noticed when we play any game or incase we are busy doing something that interests us,for a moment of that particular time we forget our daily stress,tensions and we get so much involved in what we are doing full heartedly.And that is the only time which relieves you from getting drowned in the busy world.
Apart from this, there are many things you can try like singing,listening to music,dancing ,cycling etc.I mean to say if you cannot afford to workout due to some health problems just pick up one activity which can bring closer to the mother nature and rest will follow by itself.
If we do try,we can.This discipline is not only meant for youngsters or old age people,but it’s for everyone.This is one small plan is for all your success,not being basically in your education or professionalism,BUT IT’S FOR YOUR REAL LIFE.

Certain predicaments of life are very difficult to explain.(True story)

               

While I was swiping my screen on & over the Quora.com, so as in the quest of finding  some interesting questions to answer,I came across one such which I feel was very genuine and happened to be difficult for me to answer.For a small fraction of time it left me speechless and I was in a transfixed state of mind.Now what do I answer him/her? To the point of my surprise it was asked in an anonymous state.Later on,when he was satisfied with my explanations and thoughts to recover from the irreparable loss he had suffered,he commented in the comment box " Thank you abhijit,you bought me peace." Then I just checked his profile and we became nice friends.

He is from u.s.A and was happy in his life with his well to do income and small family to maintain .He is working as diesel mechanic in reputed automobile company.But I am sorry I cannot tell you his name,because now its our personal matter and it's my commitment to share this bondage of painful relation that I am tied up with.

But I would definitely like to show you the glimpse of my answer to his question and its not only for him,perhaps indeed it is for all of you,because though we are smart enough to predict our future we still don't know what games our time is about to play with us.

My heart felt sympathies to you dear !
I hardly find anyone asking such questions,and the pain of losing someone in the family cannot be lowered down by anyone's sweet talks.
But they say “ Sharing happiness enhances it & sharing sorrow declines it.If there was any way to forget our beloved one's so easily, who have gone far beyond our sighs and left us with the big load of memories,then human life would have been a beautiful spell to live.But it isn't like that.
see,one or the other day everyone of us have to leave this world forever,and have to go. And this is the reality of our life that shatters us and keeps telling us that nothing is prominent over this earth,not even the world that we stay on.
If you love your mom so much,then you have got to do many things for her,and yourself.Breaking yourself in such a situation is not the right thing to do,and maybe this isn't what your mother must have taught to you when she was behind you to teach all such lessons.
Just imagine those days,when you fell on the playgrounds and how so your mother had treated you,just imagine that moment of your life when you had fallen sick on the bed and how your mother sat her eye on you for a full whole night.And just imagine those days when you had made her cry for your selfish deeds,just imagine those happy tears you gave her,when you must have achieved something in your life.
Just try to notice how you feel when you recall back that memorable time you have spent with your mother, at certain point of time you might smile and cry thinking about her.And its all because you miss that person so much,that none can replace her space in your house.
But there is one thing, I would like to tell you is that,the person who remains in your memory and heart forever is never gone.You will feel her sitting right besides you.And that's where her space is,where she is going to reside forever: ‘In your heart.’
See, when she had strived hard to give you life and struggled hard to make you a good person while inculcating morals,values and good character in you,then now on,it's your responsibility to walk on her paths which she had shown you.
There may be many incidences where she would have showed you many good principle of life that are to be maintained,even while you had been facing bitter lesson that your life brought forth.IT’S NOW TIME FOR YOU TO WALK ON HER PRINCIPLES,WHEN SHE IS NOT THERE RIGHT INFRONT OF YOU.
Whatever all that she did for you, was meant for this day, when she is not available for you,and gone forever.Now it's your time to prove her right that she had played her role well.And now that you have become a strong person than ever.Make an effort that proves her right in all walks of your life.
If we allow, ‘TIME HEALS EVERY WOUND'.Get yourself recovered well from this emotional & heart breaking situation of your life.Because as of now, you know well that, you still have got to do a lot many things to your late mother.
FIX YOUR LATE MOTHER OVER THE WALLS OF YOUR HEART,AND JUST DON’T TUCK HER ON THE WALLS OF YOUR HOUSE IN SOME FANCY FRAMES.WHERE SHE IS FORGOTTEN.
When she has made you,now its your turn to prove her right, when she is no more.
WALK ON ! LIFE IS SIMPLE IF YOU MAKE IT.
ALL OF US ARE ALIKE ‘TRAVELLERS, ON OUR OWN JOURNEY.’AND ALL OF US KNOW VERY WELL, THE FINAL DESTINATION OF OUR LIFE.WHERE FROM, WE ARE NEVER GOING TO TURN BACK.
so now on you have to take care of those who love you and who you love the most.
LIFE IS STILL A BEAUTIFUL JOURNEY.
WALK ON !

True love

Sometimes eyes reveal everything,one is trying to hide.

Love & relationships

             

If your partner often keeps complaining about you,or he/she keeps telling you that you must change,without caring about your feelings & emotions.Then remember,this is never going to get changed.Because once you start changing yourself just because others are telling you to do so,then it means you have lended your key of happiness to someone else.It simple terms when you start doing so,there is literally no meaningful limits to that what he/she is asking for.
Remember,when you rely on someone to be happy,it means you are also lending him/her the absolute right to make you unhappy.
But sometimes it so often happens,that we stuck on to the same partners being nostalgic,its just the past good memories that gives us hope that one or the other day situation will change.
But in the real sense that relationship is losing its true essence when it is stuck on some past memories to come alive in the present or future.
    Just imagine a case when someone calls you 'beautiful' how nice you feel for a moment,and then if someone says 'you are ugly', you may start believing it for whole of your lifetime,which is even more dangerous enough to ruin your life.And It's all because our brain tricks down & amplifies negative thoughts more rather than positive ones.
   So anyone of you is facing such problem then just pause for a moment & reflect.
You will come to the conclusion,that if someone is not happy out of your being then it's nothing wrong with you,but they are reflecting their priorities.
  It's a Time to leave then,because  no one deserves to be rejected or to be unhappy or left alone.
Be grateful if someone has left you alone now, rather than later.
Be grateful that the same person has gone from your life.
 Don't go to water the dead plant.
  
It's not about being happy with someone,but its all about someone who makes you happy.